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Episode 86 In this episode with Dr. Jeannelle we speak on a the different intimacies in relationships, whether it's physical, spiritual, emotional, or cognitive. We as humans think that intimacy is only a physical thing with touch, smell, taste, sight, and hearing your partner but it's much more than that. Dr. Jeanelle Perkins-Muhammad is a therapist, an author, and speaker. She’s worked in psychotherapy and is a licensed family therapist with more than 20 years of experience in relationship and life coaching. She is the author of Into Me See Mastering Black intimacy for the relationship you’ve always wanted.  An excerpt from Into-Me-See Mastering Black Intimacy for the Relationship You've Always Wanted on Emotional Intimacy "It is important to set aside judgment and listen to understand each other, recognizing that jumping to conclusions or making assumptions could derail the ability to truly connect. To have an exciting and satisfying sexual encounter, each person ne...

Episode 62 So I definitely noticed in most tv shows the commonality of couples that get together are based on their work place relationships. And it dawned on me that it was weird that couples that we claim are ENDGAME were only together because they were thrust together via the workplace. While in my own dating life, I have only dated maybe a couple of guys based on being around them while at work. It seemed so common based on the shows I watched. But in reality, my friends, the parents of my friends, people in my groups and communities DID NOT date, have a relationship or get married and also worked together. Instead they met in various ways and kept the workplace separate. Unless one of the persons in the relationship owned a business and their partner would work with them that is completely different. My point is that majority of the shows I watch featured couples getting together based on proximity. Here's the list below of the ones from Tv. Tv Show Couples: Derek & Mered...

 Episode 56 In this episode, it's the last episode of 2022 and KDTime wraps up the year with gratitude for the retail world. It's the holiday season and the most important thing is that the people remember what it's all about. it's short and simple.  Here are at least 5 things to remember when it comes to holiday Breathe. Remember to take deep breaths.  Take time for yourself. You don't have to say “yes” to every social engagement that comes your way.  Create new memories.  Don't compare your family situation to a Hallmark card.  Be grateful. There are more things to remember but as long as you treat people as you want to be treated you should have a wonderful holiday season! 

Episode 35  Now before you get upset reading this, do understand this characters are not at all real and they are entirely created by writers who have a vision for their stories. Tv shows are stories we get to see in a visual way. And because of that fact it is easy to get attached to characters because you are seeing their stories and the drama and you can easily get sucked in to the romance or the struggle of their relationships. Which is why when I created this particular episode, I already knew that it was only an opinion piece and doesn't really matter in real life. I can't change the way characters are written like I can't change the weather to be what I want it to be. With that being said these characters and their romantic partners that they happen to end up with by the end of their shows run are as follows.  P.S. Again, my choices. AGREE TO DISAGREE if you don't like it. George & Izzie from Greys Anatomy Tom and Ann Perkins from Parks & Rec Ezra and Ari...